Bringing the Generations Together

Bringing the Generations Together

The average age of church members is getting older1 by seven years than society in general, and we currently live in a time of segregation where we are divided into bubbles of different age groups. A recent article talks about one church’s revitalization plan that would eventually exclude the older generations.2

But as faithful followers and stewards of Jesus, we are certain that all age groups can serve one another intergenerationally and thrive together.

Today in our churches there is a tendency to focus more on the younger generations to prevent decline in attendance. The older generation seems to be left out of the equation of church growth. In his book,3 Marc Freedman emphasizes the importance of engaging the older generation with the younger generation because there is so much wisdom that can be passed on to the younger generation through the intergenerational effort. Wisdom passed on to the younger generation and, in return, vitality is found in their mutual relationship. Freedman writes, “The only resource big enough to help solve the problems facing the next generation is the older one” (p.14). This shows that the older generation can bring life to church, not just the younger generation. Research studies on the Experience Corps4 and Judson Manor5 show that the older generation can provide mentorship and life experience. Freedman also writes, “Engagement with others that flows down the generational chain will make you healthier, happier, and likely longer-lived. It’s the real fountain of youth” (p. 123).

Moses was 80 years old when he began his ministry. He not only led a whole nation in the journey to the Promised Land, but he also nurtured Joshua to become the next leader. It’s hard to imagine Joshua without Moses, Samuel without Eli, or Elisha without Elijah.

The prophet writes, Old men and old women shall again sit in the streets of Jerusalem, each one with staff in his hand because of great age. The streets of the city shall be full of boys and girls playing in it’s streets (Zechariah 8:4-5, NKJV.)

In recent decades, the society turned into nuclear families. As a result, David Brooks writes in his article6 “Americans today have less family than ever before.” This brought dis-integration from each other but, due to the financial crisis in 2008, more than 20 percent of Americans now live in multigenerational homes. This would be a good opportunity to embrace the different generations.

by Myoung Kwon, Waukesha District Pastor
shared from the Lake Union Herald

   1. In 2016, the median age in the U.S. was 37.9 and the median age in the Seventh-day Adventist Church in the U.S. was 45.
   2. https://www, that-didnt-actually-happen/ Accessed 5/7/2020
   3. Freedman, Marc. 2018. How to Live Forever: The enduring Power of Connecting the Generations. First edition. e. New York, NY: PublicAffairs.
   4. Accessed 5/7/2020
   5. https:/// Accessed 5/9/2020
   6. Accessed6/21/2020